Hello,

Thank you for clicking on my ad. And since this is potentially where it begins, why not get really comfy (might be quite lengthy); get that cup of coffee or glass of wine, or whatever, and sit back for a few moments?

Have you been sat there browsing through a fair number of ads from 'the good, the bad and the ugly' and just not quite finding the one? I guess for me, it's a little different, there seem to be quite a few ads posted by ladies who have taken the time to write amazing ads. Some show great intelligence and are written so well they border on works of art, some show the integrity and openness of the person behind, some are just devillishly playful and funny (maybe sometimes not for the intended reason but, hey, we all have our own sense of humour) and there have been several that left me feeling, i'm sure given time and the chance, i'd really get on with this person. But the one thing i can't know is how committed you, whoever are sat there reading this very line, really is. And so i'm posting my own and seeing what kind of response i get.

Let's see if we can put the other half to sleep? As rather than sit here and list a score of things i'm interested in and find entertaining or see as fundamental traits of my character (i hope you are getting some insight indirectly anyway?), i want to carry on talking about this making a bond with the right person out there a while longer. Indulge me? Anyway i'm certainly not going to describe physical attributes or enlighten you to how i perceive myself to be and look. You can tell me, define me, over time, but let's leave that to one side for now?

Anyway something i believe is very human is this: who ever you may be, i'm sure given enough time to really get to know you, to know all your past dreams and fears, all the hurts and loves, to see those around you who love and care for you, to find out who you are today, what you care about and what makes you most emotional, what you strive for in life and to understand what exactly happiness is for you, then i'm sure i'd begin to care. And maybe want to be a part of that future of yours, to try and bring you that happiness. And if you haven't really found what makes you happy, then as a friend, all i'd ask is the chance to be by your side and try and find it together somehow, some way. Know the Billy Joel song 'Innocent Man', how he sings of not being above doing anything for the one he loves no matter what it takes? To try and find a way to bring her back from the dark place of hurt she has found herself in. That's what you do, isn't it for the one you love.

So why isn't this in the 'friends wanted' section? Well, i'm prepared to really work at building something special, a friendship first, take it slow and get to know the real you, and then, with that base strong and sure, i'm aiming for a soul mate.. no quarters taken or given here, so be warned :) And then finally, one starry night, take you somewhere very special to get to know your most intimate secrets, to become fierce lovers with not a secret left between us. To hold you, at one with each other, on my chest, and just talk forever and a day stroking your face and hair. (Yep, the romantic checkbox.. big check; he sounds a bit serious tho?)

I don't want hundreds of casual friends just one amazing one. One who'll be there when all else have left. I know this sounds a bit too ideal and i could have made this a touch less heavy in tone (a touch he says!) but i wanted to make this serious and there are no apologies for its length. So if you feel like taking an openly-offered hand and walking down this road with me to see how far we get and where it may lead, i'd love to hear from you.

I've never done this before and am not sure how appropriate what i've said comes across as, i have however just been honest. If you've found yourself just rolling your eyes, letting out the occassional tut, whatever, well i haven't read through what the other guys on here are saying, but if what a lot of the messages the girls have posted on here are to go by, there are a lot of really interesting people out there and i hope you find the one you are looking for. If something i've said has upset or offended you, hey feel free to tell me why, criticism isn't always bad. But a final note, if you are going to just write back one-liners saying something like, 'yeah but what bout a pic mate, u got one, have ya?' it will just make me think, 'was what i wrote that uninteresting?' lol Feel free to comment on that! And in hopes of hearing from some very nice people, one girl out there who i just don't even know exists right now in particular. So refill that wine glass (tee-totallers go get a second bag of hula hoops or something) and write me an e-mail from the heart.

night night,

G

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